Our guide Tan was surprised that we wanted to visit the Death Railway in Kanchanaburi, some hundred kilometres out of Bangkok, in the direction of the Thai-Burmese border. Most tourists visiting the prisoner of war camp were elderly people, he told us, people who wanted to visit the graves where their fathers or colleagues had died. These trips tended to be very emotional for them, Tan told us, as the site brings back very painful memories for some.
It may have seemed odd for a young couple to be visiting a former prisoner of war camp during our honeymoon, but we both love learning about history, and we felt that it would be appropriate given that Remembrance Day was coming up. Also, Rob had really enjoyed the movie Bridge on the River Kwai.
During World War II, the Japanese army forced thousands of British, American, Dutch, and Australian prisoners of war to construct a railway connecting Thailand and Burma. Although professional engineers assessed the project should take five years to complete, the Japanese army forced the POWs to finish it in sixteen months. As a result, massive numbers (over 16000) of war prisoners died due to the harsh conditions. They say for every single track laid down in the railway, a prisoner died.
The driver and guide we hired first took us to the war ceremony, a few hours out of Bangkok, where these soldiers were buried, mostly British, Dutch, and Australian (the Americans had shipped their dead home). Many of these soldiers were died quite young, as early as 20.
It was interesting to hear all about the war on the Southeast Asian front. As Canadians, we spend a lot of time learning about the war in Europe, but we do have to remember that countries all around the world were involved, and the fighting was happening here in the jungles of Southeast Asia, just as it was in France and Germany.
The cemetery was quite well-maintained, although it was hard to believe that so many of these Allied soldier had been buried so far away from home.
Afterwards, we drove to the war museum which contained photos and records of life at the prisoner of war camp. As you can imagine, some of the images were quite shocking. What struck me the most was the series of paintings done by a former prisoner, depicting life at the camp. I imagined it must have been his way of coping with these memories, of dealing with all of the horrible things he saw. I was also impressed by the story of one of the Japanese interpreters who worked for the Japanese at the camp. Afterwards, he was so filled with regret at what had happened at the camp that he became a monk and devoted the rest of his life to help people and give back to society.
After the museum, we took a brightly colored long tail speed boat down the River Kwai to see the Death Railway itself. Along the way we passed all sorts of floating restaurants and bars on the river, and even a floating discotheque.
The bridge on the River Kwai itself that forms part of the Death Railway has been bombed and destroyed by the Allied forces. It has since been rebuilt, and you can actually ride a train along the railway that serves both as a tourist attraction and as a commuter option for local Thais.
We rode the train, sharing a compartment with a tour group of excited noisy Japanese tourists. The open air train was not air conditioned, and despite the ceiling fans, it was still quite hot with the noon sun beating in. The energetic, talkative Japanese tourists didn't seem to realize that with this heat, the more you move, the hotter you get. The trick is to sit still and calm your heart to a slow beat. I drank out of a coconut to stay cool.
The train took us through the Thai jungles and the countryside full of monkeys and tapioca fields. Vendors walked through the train selling tapioca snacks, as well as yogurt drinks, beer, and pancakes.
The train broke down in what felt like the hottest, sunniest field without a sliver of a shade. The chattering Japanese tourists kept on chatting. The heat rose. I thought about what it must have been like for the Allied soldiers, working on this railway, used to British cold but forced to work in this sweltering heat in the middle of a foreign jungle far away from home and everything they knew. I was glad that the Japanese were excited but I wished they would shut up and stop moving around, bumping their sweaty hot bodies into my sweaty hot body. I wished the train would move again.
Eventually a woman mechanic rode up to the train on a motorcycle with a wrench in her hand, and she saved the day. The train lurched forward, and we all waved to her from our window.
We approached a wooden bridge, the most difficult part of the railway to build. The train teetered perilously over the cliffs. I tried to imagine how the prisoners of war would have struggled to build this dangerous part of the railway, the tracks clinging tightly to the side of the mountain.
We got off the train at Wang Pho, about a hundred kilometres from the Burmese border. For lunch we stopped at a middle of nowhere restaurant called Phimohaya, run by Burmese owners. It was an open air restaurant with a thatched roof and caged birds that screeched at you as you passed. They served pad Thai and spaghetti that was underwhelming, but the fried banana was delicious.
It had been a long hot day, so the drive back to Bangkok was quiet. It was a long journey to take, but I was glad that we had this chance to see a bit of World War II history. Both of Rob's grandparents fought in World War II and were fortunate enough to make it back alive. My great-grandfather was a fighter for underground resistance against the Japanese occupiers, and one day disappeared without a sign, presumably killed by the forces. It's interesting to see how these major events affect people all around the world, and I'm glad I had a chance to pay my respects to veterans in a different country on the other side of the world.
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
shopping in Bangkok
Bangkok has been, quite frankly, a second injection of culture shock to our system since we've begun our honeymoon. Going from Siem Reap to Bangkok feels to me like all the times I went from Windhoek to Johannesburg. Bangkok is a proper metropolis of some 14 million people, a never-ending cityline full of secrets that you will never have the time to discover, no matter how long you spend here. Things here are more crowded, more expensive, more smoggy, more polluted, more exciting, more everything. The sidewalks are crowded with street vendors selling everything from fake Lacoste shirts to postcards to sex toys to fruit. The delicious smell of street food mixes with the less delicious smell of garbage and sewer. There are more motorcycles on the streets than I've ever seen in my life. My sophisticated hotel tv greets me with a "Welcome Ms Gloriameerang" (that's what the hotels and airports here think my name is. I guess it sounds more southeast Asian than just the short Gloria.)
We've arrived in Bangkok with no agenda. We plan to stay for a week. On our first day, we decided to try our hand at shopping. We've been told that Bangkok is shopping heaven, both for brand names and brand name knock-offs.
We were given the advice to window shop at the mall Terminal 21 first and then actually shop at MBK afterwards. Terminal 21 is the really nice mall with like hundreds of boutiques and many floors. The bathrooms each have bidets. Each floor has a different theme based on an international city: Rome, San Francisco, Paris, Tokyo...no Vancouver yet, but maybe the mall will expand. Lots of gorgeous fashion forward dress styles that I'm sure will make their way to North America in five years or so. I didn't buy anything. I was afraid that if I bought one thing, the barrier would be broken and I wouldn't be able to help myself from the shopping spree deluge that would follow.
MBK is pretty much the original Pac Mall. Picture a huge building with many floors and hundreds of little stands on each floor. It's the cheapest place anywhere to buy a mobile phone. It's the place to go to be buy Gucci sunglasses. It's the place to go to buy phone numbers and license plates with the lucky number 9. It's the place to go to buy illegal copies of software. It's the place to go to get permanent makeup tattooed on your face. It's the place to go to sharpen your bargaining skills with people who do not speak any languages that you do, which is, in itself, quite the experience.
It is also, according to the Lonely Planet, the place to go to eat. The food court is the awesome Asian style that I wish would become more popular in North America, where you get a special credit card as you enter, and then you go nuts at all of the international stands inside the court. One day, I'm going to eat one too many fried noodle dishes, and the people of Siam will forever refer to the Great Noodle Explosion of Gloriameerang.
Like the tourist I am, I bought more Thai silk that you can shake a Thai stick at, and tried on a bunch of ridiculously pretty ridiculously cheap dresses. I bought some clothes that are more appropriate to wear here. In a country where modesty is important but the weather is oppressively humid, my spaghetti strap tank tops don't work, but neither do my thick skinny jeans. In Asia, by the way, I am no longer a size small.
In the evening, we stopped for cheap drinks ($2 beers) at the aptly named Cheap Charlie's, a bar randomly located in a dark alley surprisingly popular with ex-pats. It was a bit odd to be standing in an alley drinking Tiger beer as more and more young white guys in business suits showed up to crowd the alley, but it was a quirky atmosphere. After our Asian aperitifs we headed for the trendy lounge Zanzibar next door, for green curry, chicken satay and fried calamari, where a young long-haired Thai man crooned Elvis songs on the piano exactly like Elvis. It was freaking awesome. They say you haven't experienced Bangkok until you hear a Thai cover of the Eagle's Hotel California at a hotel bar. I eagerly await this experience.
We've arrived in Bangkok with no agenda. We plan to stay for a week. On our first day, we decided to try our hand at shopping. We've been told that Bangkok is shopping heaven, both for brand names and brand name knock-offs.
We were given the advice to window shop at the mall Terminal 21 first and then actually shop at MBK afterwards. Terminal 21 is the really nice mall with like hundreds of boutiques and many floors. The bathrooms each have bidets. Each floor has a different theme based on an international city: Rome, San Francisco, Paris, Tokyo...no Vancouver yet, but maybe the mall will expand. Lots of gorgeous fashion forward dress styles that I'm sure will make their way to North America in five years or so. I didn't buy anything. I was afraid that if I bought one thing, the barrier would be broken and I wouldn't be able to help myself from the shopping spree deluge that would follow.
tokyo
paris
MBK is pretty much the original Pac Mall. Picture a huge building with many floors and hundreds of little stands on each floor. It's the cheapest place anywhere to buy a mobile phone. It's the place to go to be buy Gucci sunglasses. It's the place to go to buy phone numbers and license plates with the lucky number 9. It's the place to go to buy illegal copies of software. It's the place to go to get permanent makeup tattooed on your face. It's the place to go to sharpen your bargaining skills with people who do not speak any languages that you do, which is, in itself, quite the experience.
It is also, according to the Lonely Planet, the place to go to eat. The food court is the awesome Asian style that I wish would become more popular in North America, where you get a special credit card as you enter, and then you go nuts at all of the international stands inside the court. One day, I'm going to eat one too many fried noodle dishes, and the people of Siam will forever refer to the Great Noodle Explosion of Gloriameerang.
Like the tourist I am, I bought more Thai silk that you can shake a Thai stick at, and tried on a bunch of ridiculously pretty ridiculously cheap dresses. I bought some clothes that are more appropriate to wear here. In a country where modesty is important but the weather is oppressively humid, my spaghetti strap tank tops don't work, but neither do my thick skinny jeans. In Asia, by the way, I am no longer a size small.
In the evening, we stopped for cheap drinks ($2 beers) at the aptly named Cheap Charlie's, a bar randomly located in a dark alley surprisingly popular with ex-pats. It was a bit odd to be standing in an alley drinking Tiger beer as more and more young white guys in business suits showed up to crowd the alley, but it was a quirky atmosphere. After our Asian aperitifs we headed for the trendy lounge Zanzibar next door, for green curry, chicken satay and fried calamari, where a young long-haired Thai man crooned Elvis songs on the piano exactly like Elvis. It was freaking awesome. They say you haven't experienced Bangkok until you hear a Thai cover of the Eagle's Hotel California at a hotel bar. I eagerly await this experience.
muay thai boxing in bangkok
Captain, the interestingly named agent who had sold us our muay thai boxing tickets, waved us down frantically as soon as he saw us entering the hotel lobby.
“The stadium just informed me that the price of the tickets have gone up,” he told us. “There is going to be a very special fight tonight.”
I wondered if we were being hosed, but figured why not pay the extra price. Watching a muay thai boxing match in what is essentially the world mecca of muay thai boxing was one of the top things I wanted to do while in Bangkok, and it would be all the more exciting if famous boxers were going to go at it tonight.
We took a cab to the Lumpanee Stadium, a ride that managed to be hectic and slow at the same time, as we were caught in the heavy stop-and-go traffic that is Bangkok’s permanent rush hour. A few times, our cab driver lay his head down in the middle of the seat to close his eyes and rest, knowing we weren’t going to get anywhere soon.
As soon as we got out of the cab, the stadium staff recognized our VIP tickets and pushed us through the crowd to escort us to our ringside seats. Captain had insisted on selling us the most expensive tickets, assuring us that it was best for foreigners not to be caught in the crowd. Again, I think it was a sell, but why not take the best view of the fight that had already started?
I ‘ve taken up muay thai boxing back in Ottawa this year, after a mixed martial arts expert told me that muay thai boxing is pretty much the most useful one to know in a street brawl. I don’t actually have any intention of being in a street brawl, but I was fascinated with the idea of learning a skill that involves every aspect of your body. It also seems to involve killing all the nerves in your body so you don’t feel pain. One of the boxing gyms that I work out at (I go to two) is led by an instructor who looks a lot like Micheal Cera in short shorts, who had me practicing my kicks on the punching bag. I’ve heard that professional Muay Thai get up early in the morning to kick banana trees in order to kill all the nerves in their shins. Kicking hurts my legs, because the nerves in my shins are not dead. Eventually I got to the point where I would wind myself up for a kick, start to go for it, and then recoil back like a wimp in fear of the pain that would follow.
Meanwhile, out of the corner of my eye, I saw a French Canadian girl sparring with a guy much taller than her. She was still kicking his butt. I was fascinated by this display. Afterwards, Micheal Cera in short shorts had me practicing with her. She showed no mercy. I was just supposed to be practicing my jabs and crosses, but every time I accidentally dropped my gloves to expose my neck, she’d reach out and slap me on the face with her gloves. It was terrifying, painful, and exhilarating.
It was all the more amazing to watch professionals duke it out in the ring in the country where the sport was invented. Because, after all, nothing says romantic honeymoon like watching two trained men beat the living daylights out of each other. Boxing is Thailand’s favourite sport, and the stands were packed with shouting Thai men who were all trying to secretly place bets (gambling is illegal here). I couldn’t take my eyes off the fight. All but 2 of the rounds involved boxers that weighed less than me, averaging about 113 pounds. That’s a lot of very light, very small guys who are nonetheless very muscular and very fierce. Many of them were also quite young, looking not a day over fifteen years old. They began each fight by entering the ring wearing Buddhist flower garlands, and performing elaborate rituals to pay tribute to their trainers and prepare themselves. Vendors sold ramen noodle and Chang beer to the crowds.
Each fight was accompanied by musicians providing live traditional Thai music that really added to the feeling that I had been transported inside a Mortal Kombat video game. Unlike Mortal Kombat, however, the fighters were careful and calculating in their brutality. Usually I just mash all the buttons at once.
My favourite fight involved two men who both weighed 115 pounds. Rob was betting on red. I was betting on blue. We were betting kisses, because this was, after all, our honeymoon. Red had smoked Blue in the face quite hard and Blue was bleeding all over himself and Red. I thought it was going to be over. But Blue was clearly angry, and despite the blood that was flowing down his brow, by his eyes, and all over his chest, he attacked Red with the fury of an animal. Push kick. Push kick. Knee. Red put up a good fight, but he’d gotten too cocky too early at the sight of drawing blood. Blue never gave up, and never grew tired, while Red steadily lost his energy. He was also, I admit, taking a lot of hits. There was a pivotal moment where Blue was just giving out kick after kick to Red’s rib. With every hit, the Thai crowd shouted. Side note: Ever notice how the sound of a punch or a kick sounds nothing like the POW that you hear in the movies? Nope. The thunderous sound that you might expect to hear, however, was echoed in the crowd. Kick. Kick. Kick. Red wavered, and then suddenly collapsed. He couldn’t take anymore. Blue stood and waved at the crowd, blood all over his face. Blue had won. What a fight.
Monday, October 22, 2012
help me out!
Hello blog readers, I would like to ask you for a favour.
As you know, I'm in a indie rock girl band called Scary Bear Soundtrack. We've entered our song "Beaver Pond Forest" into a contest run by CBC Radio 1 for a chance to play a live session on the radio show Bandwidth. This would be a great opportunity for our band. The way we get to the next round is through votes...so please vote for us! You can vote once every day until Sunday October 28, so vote every day.
Read more about the contest here
VOTE FOR US HERE.
Not sure if you want to support our music? Listen to our song Beaver Pond Forest here!
Friday, October 19, 2012
wedding photos
beautiful photos of our wedding by Mailyne Briggs (http://mailyne.com/)
the moms walk down the aisle
the Choi sisters' facial expressions are the best thing about this photo.
serious bride!
our beautiful wedding reception venue at Britannia Beach
beautiful Britannia Beach
wonderful cakes from Penny (http://www.cakesaboveall.com/)
our wonderful MC for the night, Michael Curley
Elder Oh says grace before dinner
wedding favours
grandpa sings a song for us
dessert!
Paebek, the Korean wedding ceremony. First we bow for my grandfather
bowing before my grandmother. Sannah is helping me with the bowing.
bowing before Rob's parents
Rob's mom gets ready to throw dates and chestnuts at us as a sign of good luck - the number of dates and chestnuts we catch predicts how many daughters and sons we'll have
Rob seems to really want kids!
According to the Paebek tradition, we are going to have three sons and one daughter. Oh boy.
bowing for my parents
our first dance
father daughter dance
mother son dance
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